Survey 178 en qid code answer sortorder assessment_value language scale_id gid sid group_name group_order description language randomization_group grelevance Some Basic Questions About Who You Are

 

The first part of this survey is a short series of demographic questions, such as age, sex, level of education, etc.  These are important questions to help us understand some basic information about you. 

 

Just a reminder...  All of the information you provide in this survey is anonymous.  No questions will be asked that could be used to identify you.

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Should You Take This Survey?

 

In order to use the information you provide in this survey, there are three things that we require:

 

  1. That you are currently in a committed relationship with another person
  2. That you are over the age of 18
  3. That you are taking this survey alone without other people present

 

It can be tempting to want to fill this out with your partner, but please do not.  Having others around when you answer the questions in this survey will likely alter the way in which you respond.  We want to make sure that all of the information collected here is as unbiased as possible.

 

All of the information you provide in this survey is anonymous. 

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Relationship Questions (p. 1 of 3)

 

The following questions are designed to help us understand your experience in your relationship.  Although some of these questions may seem quite personal, your answers will be very helpful to researchers and therapists who are working to help couples have better quality relationships.

 

In this first set of questions, you will be asked some general questions about your relationship experience with your current partner.

 

Please read each of the following statements and rate the extent to which you believe each statement best describes your feelings about your current committed relationship.

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Relationship Questions (p. 2 of 3)

 

Please read each of the following statements and rate the extent to which you believe each statement best describes your feelings about your current committed relationship.

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Communication Questions (p. 1 of 2)

 

The following questions are designed to help us understand a bit more about how you and your partner communicate. 

 

Please read each of the following statements and rate the extent to which you believe each statement best describes your communication style your current committed relationship.

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Your Personality

 

The following questions are designed to help us understand more about your personality.  Research has shown that some dimensions of an individual's personality can have an impact on the way in which they experience committed relationships. 

 

The characteristics listed below may or may not apply to you.  Please rate each statement to indicate the extent to which you agree or disagree with that statement.]]>
Communication Questions (p. 2 of 2)

 

The following questions are designed to help us understand a bit more about how you and your partner communicate. 

 

Please read each of the following statements and rate the extent to which you believe each statement best describes your communication style your current committed relationship.

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Relationship Questions (p. 3 of 3)

 

Please read each of the following statements and rate the extent to which you believe each statement best describes your feelings about your current committed relationship.

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Sexual Experiences in Your Relationship

 

The following questions are intended to help us understand some aspects of your sexual life in your committed relationship.  Because sex is a such a personal issue, and everyone has their own morality and ethics around sex, you may find some of the statements below to be offensive.  Please understand that we are seeking to understand how different people experience sex in their relationships, and want to be as inclusive as possible of various ways of relating.

 

Please read each of the following statements and rate the extent to which you believe each statement best describes how you experience your sexuality in your relationship.

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Attitudes and Beliefs about Sex

 

The following questions are designed to help us understand a bit more about some of your attitudes and beliefs about sex.  Because sex is a such a personal issue, and everyone has their own morality and ethics around sex, you may find some of the statements below to be offensive.  Please understand that we are seeking to understand how different people experience sex in their relationships, and want to be as inclusive as possible of various ways of relating.

 

Please read each of the following statements and rate the extent to which you believe each statement best describes your position on different aspects of sexuality.

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Relationship Satisfaction (p. 1 of 2)

 

The following questions are designed to help us understand how satisfied you are with various aspects of your committed relationship. 

 

Please rate each of the following statements for the extent to which you believe each statement best describes your relationship experience over the past six months. 

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Relationship Satisfaction (p. 2 of 2)

 

The following questions are designed to help us understand how satisfied you are with various aspects of your committed relationship. 

 

Please rate each of the following statements for the extent to which you believe each statement best describes your relationship experience over the past six months. 

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Sexual Satisfaction

 

The following questions are intended to help us understand your satisfaction with your current sex life within your current relationship. 

 

Thinking about your sex life during the last six months, please rate your satisfaction with the following: 

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Thank You!

 

Thank you very much for completing this survey.  The information you provided will help clarify important aspects of what makes relationships successful.

 

If you would like to recieve a complimentary copy of the study once it is completed, please indicate that below and include your email address.  We will also be doing a follow-up survey in three years to study how relationships have changed among study participants over time.  If you would like to be included in the follow-up study, please indicate that below as well.

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qid parent_qid sid gid type title question preg help other mandatory question_order language scale_id same_default relevance <![CDATA[IQ001]]> Are you taking this survey by yourself?]]> <![CDATA[DI004]]> What is your age range?]]> <![CDATA[DI012]]> What is your highest level of education?]]> <![CDATA[DI013]]> What is your current household income range?]]> <![CDATA[DI014]]> Which of the following best describes your political orientation?]]> <![CDATA[DI015]]> Which of the following best describes your level of political interest or involvement?]]> <![CDATA[DI016]]> Which of the following best describes your religious or spiritual orientation?]]> <![CDATA[DI017]]> Which of the following best describes your level of relgious interest or involvement?]]> <![CDATA[DI005]]> Which of the following best describes your sex?]]> <![CDATA[DI008]]> Which of the following best describes your sexual orientation?]]> <![CDATA[ECRx01]]> I'm afraid that I will lose my partner's love.]]> <![CDATA[SX001]]> Some couples have consensual sexual experiences with people outside of their primary relationship with the full knowledge and approval of their primary partner.  These are commonly called "comarital" or "consensual non-monogamous" sexual experiences.  These are different from affairs in that both partners within the primary relationship agree to include outside partners in their sexual lives and will often discuss potential comarital sexual encounters prior to their occurance.

Which of the following best describes your experience with comarital or consensual non-monogamous relationships?

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<![CDATA[IQ002]]> Are you currently in a committed relationship?]]> <![CDATA[ECRx02]]> I often worry that my partner will not want to stay with me.]]> <![CDATA[ECRx03]]> I often worry that my partner doesn't really love me.]]> <![CDATA[ECRx04]]> I worry that romantic partners won't care about me as much as I care about them.]]> <![CDATA[ECRx05]]> I often wish that my partner's feelings for me were as strong as my feelings for him or her.]]> <![CDATA[ECRx06]]> I worry a lot about my relationships.]]> <![CDATA[ECRx07]]> When my partner is out of sight, I worry that he or she might become interested in someone else.]]> <![CDATA[ECRx08]]> When I show my feelings for romantic partners, I'm afraid they will not feel the same about me.]]> <![CDATA[ECRx09r]]> I rarely worry about my partner leaving me.]]> <![CDATA[ECRx10]]> My romantic partner makes me doubt myself.]]> <![CDATA[ECRx11r]]> I rarely worry about being abandoned.]]> <![CDATA[ECRx12]]> I find that my partner doesn't want to get as close as I would like.]]> <![CDATA[ECRx13]]> Sometimes romantic partners change their feelings about me for no apparent reason.]]> <![CDATA[ECRx14]]> My desire to be very close sometimes scares people away.]]> <![CDATA[ECRx15]]> I'm afraid that once my partner gets to know me, he or she won't like who I really am.]]> <![CDATA[ECRx16]]> It makes me mad that I don't get the affection and support I need from my partner.]]> <![CDATA[ECRx17]]> I worry that I won't measure up to other people.]]> <![CDATA[ECRx18]]> My partner only seems to notice me whan I'm angry.]]> <![CDATA[ECRv01]]> I prefer not to show my partner how I feel deep down.]]> <![CDATA[ECRv02r]]> I feel comfortable sharing my private throughts and feelings with my partner.]]> <![CDATA[ECRv03]]> I find it difficult to allow myself to depend on romantic partners.]]> <![CDATA[ECRv04r]]> I am very comfortable opening up to my romantic partner.]]> <![CDATA[ECRv05]]> I don't feel comfortable opening up to my partner.]]> <![CDATA[ECRv06]]> I prefer not to be too close to romantic partners.]]> <![CDATA[ECRv07]]> I get uncomfortable when my partner wants to be very close.]]> <![CDATA[ECRv08r]]> I find it relatively easy to get close to my partner.]]> <![CDATA[ECRv09r]]> It's not difficult for me to get close to my partner.]]> <![CDATA[ECRv10]]> I usually discuss my problems and concerns with my partner.]]> <![CDATA[ECRv11r]]> It helps to turn to my partner in times of need.]]> <![CDATA[ECRv12r]]> I tell my partner just about everything.]]> <![CDATA[ECRv13r]]> I talk things over with my partner.]]> <![CDATA[ECRv14]]> I am nervous when partners get too close to me.]]> <![CDATA[ECRv15r]]> I feel comfortable depending on my partner.]]> <![CDATA[ECRv16r]]> I find it easy to depend on romantic partners.]]> <![CDATA[ECRv17r]]> It's easy for me to be affectionate with my partner.]]> <![CDATA[ECRv18r]]> My partner really understands me and my needs.]]> <![CDATA[IQ003]]> Are you currently over 18 years of age?]]> <![CDATA[DI002]]> In which country / region do you currently reside?]]> <![CDATA[DI009]]> Which of the following best describes your partner's sexual orientation?]]> <![CDATA[DI003]]> If you currently reside in the U.S., in which state do you live?]]> <![CDATA[DI006]]> Which of the following best describes your current relationship?]]> <![CDATA[DI007]]> How long have you been in your current relationship?  (in years)]]> <![CDATA[DI010]]> Which of the following best describes your race?]]> <![CDATA[DI011]]> Which of the following best describes the race of your partner?]]> <![CDATA[BFI01]]> I am someone who...]]> <![CDATA[DI001]]> Have you and your partner sought couseling or therapy for relationship problems in the past six months?]]> <![CDATA[COMr01]]> My partner and I always have a lot to talk about.]]> <![CDATA[COMr02]]> I can talk with my partner to help clarify my thoughts.]]> <![CDATA[COMr03]]> My partner listens to me when I need someone to talk to.]]> <![CDATA[COMr06]]> I often feel put down in serious conversations with my partner.]]> <![CDATA[COMr07]]> I usually keep my thoughts to myself when I'm with my partner.]]> <![CDATA[COMs01]]> I will tell my partner when I want to have sex, rather than keep it to myself.]]> <![CDATA[COMs02]]> I let my partner know what I find sexually pleasing.]]> <![CDATA[COMs06]]> I don't usually share my sexual fantasies with my partner.]]> <![CDATA[COMs07]]> I sometimes don't know how to ask for what I want in my sexual relationship.]]> <![CDATA[COMs08]]> I am unable to tell my partner what I like sexually.]]> <![CDATA[COMr04]]> My partner and I both contribute equally to conversations.]]> <![CDATA[COMr05]]> When I speak, I feel that my partner hears what I have to say.]]> <![CDATA[COMr08]]> My partner and I just don't communicate very well.]]> <![CDATA[COMr09]]> Our conversations often end up in an argument.]]> <![CDATA[COMr10]]> I tend to let things build up before I finally talk about them.]]> <![CDATA[COMs03]]> My partner shares his or her sexual feelings with me.]]> <![CDATA[COMs04]]> We have very open discussions about our sex life.]]> <![CDATA[COMs05]]> I feel perfectly comfortable refusing sex if I am not in the mood.]]> <![CDATA[COMs09]]> I tend to avoid talking about sex.]]> <![CDATA[COMs10]]> I am anxious about sharing my sexual thoughts with my partner.]]> <![CDATA[CON01]]> Please send me a complimentary copy of the study results once the data has been analyzed (this will take several months).]]> <![CDATA[CON02]]> Your email address:]]> <![CDATA[CON03]]> I am interested in participating in the three-year follow-up study.  Please contact me when that portion of the study is ready to begin.]]> <![CDATA[RSAT01]]> <![CDATA[RSAT02]]> <![CDATA[SSAT01]]>
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Welcome and thank you for taking the time to participate in The Relationship Survey:  Sex and Connection in Committed Relationships.  This study is intended to help clarify what makes committed relationships successful.

 

Your answers to the questions in this survey will help clarify how several different factors, such as emotional responsiveness, sexuality, and communication influence the quality and satisfaction within a committed relationship.

 

Note:  This survey will take approximately 20 minutes to complete and needs to be completed by each individual in a relationship separately.  Please take this survey by yourself without anyone else observing your answers.

 

This study is being conducted for academic research purposes and the findings of the study are intended for publication.  This is a voluntary and anonymous survey.  You will not be asked to disclose any personal information that could be used to identify you.  At the end of the questions, you will be given the option of receiving a copy of the study report by email once the results are analyzed.

 

Thank you again for your participation.

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Thank you very much for your participation in The Relationship Survey:  Sex and Connection in Committed Relationships.

 

Your responses have been saved.  If you have requested to receive a copy of the report of the survey results, you will receive that via email when it is complete.

 

Have a wonderful day!

 

Todd Berntson, MA, LPC
Principle Investigator

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